Just my two cents. In agreement with others and science, sleep is paramount, particularly in the long view. Is every training day 2-2.5 hours as stated above. If so, some could be made more time efficient.
My youngest is now 18, so that world is far behind us. Some things that help for me is all my training can happen in my house or from my front door. I’m fortunate that a great trail system is near my house. Its only 30 min for me to drive to the ski hill but that has been more compromised lately for budgeting time elsewhere.
A great deal of my exercises happen in the living room where we keep dumbbells, adjustable kettlebell and pull up bar. This saves me time when its my dinner time and when my kids where young, we were still all sharing time together. We have a squat rack in house that my son and his friends also use. Good luck.