[deckersdan]

Hey everybody,

This is probably a question best answered with “just do it” or “find a target to aim for” which has been my strategy for the past few months but consistency has been a real challenge.

I have no shortage of goals both long term and short term, with numerous ice/alpine goals in the northeast this winter and even a trip to california planned for the summer, but I just cant find the motivation to train. I bought two training plans at the beginning of quarantine thinking that having paid I would motivate myself to follow through but this wasn’t enough (though very stoked to have those available now!). I keep finding my mental health preventing me from training the way I would like to, with occasional breakthroughs (such as my first 5.10 trad route a few months ago) motivating me to get back into training, but always starting from square one.

Yesterday I sent my first 5.11c sport route and I can feel the training stoke coming back into view. I’m all to familiar with this fleeting motivation coming and going and training along with it. This time around I want to stick to it. What do those of you struggling with anxiety, depression, and other motivational hinderances do to stay on your game? Thank you!

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[crouch.k]

crouch.k on December 1, 2020 at 2:32 am #47703

Not a coach, but this sounds very familiar! Of course, all of this is very personal, but I have put some thoughts and ideas that have helped me below. Good luck and look after yourself.

Goals and planned trips are definitely helpful, but in my experience you can have the most amazing trip planned for next summer and be really excited about it, but that doesn’t necessarily translate to motivation for doing that training session today. The more sessions you skip, the worse you feel about it and the harder it becomes to find motivation.

I use a “show up to the mat” approach – the phrasing comes from my days as a gymnast, but the concept is the same. If I have a workout scheduled and I am motivated to do it, great. If I am not motivated, I’ll tell myself that I need to show up before I can give up. For gymnastics, that meant putting on workout gear and getting my mat and other kit together. For running, getting my running kit and shoes on and going outside. If I do that and I’m still not feeling it, it’s ok not to do the workout. More than 99% of the time, getting that far is half the battle and once I am dressed and ready to go I will just get on and do whatever I had planned to do. If I’m still not feeling it, I’ll take the same approach again and persuade myself to “just run a mile” or “just warm up” before giving up, and that will quite often be enough to get me there.

The key to this, though, is that there is always occasional day where you do show up and it still feels too much. I’ve certainly had days where I’ve stood on the front porch in my running gear and then gone back into the house to watch Netflix in my pyjamas instead – in those cases it’s ok to give yourself a break and not to beat yourself up about it. For me, knowing that I tried helps with the latter. The important thing is to show up again the next day.

The other useful thing is to train with other people as often as possible. If someone is expecting to meet you at the climbing gym for a session, you’re much more likely to go than if you don’t feel like it than you are if it’s only yourself you are letting down. Even if you aren’t doing anything that requires a partner, the idea of an “accountability buddy” can be helpful, particularly if you are performing the same service for the other person in return.

[GuillaumeM]

GuillaumeM on December 1, 2020 at 8:36 am #47714

Hi,
previous idea is great.
I will add my experience. I, too, struggled with motivation and being organized.
Maybe instead of paying a prebuilt plan, you could pay for a coach for a few month, at least to start-up. If someone is following you you can’t hide yourself because the coach will require results 😉
That’s an option. That’s where I started last year to organize better.
Then now I use Training Peak on my own and make my plan week after week. I don’t allow myself to listen to that little voice which tells “you can do it later”. Even if the voice is here, I, too, put my shoes on and do the workout I plan.
Maybe once you are well engaged in a training plan, you won’t give up so easily. But that means you have to follow up for a few weeks and force yourself to get serious into the training.
And it should be nice to see the results at some point so that you will tell yourself that all of this is worth it.

[Diana]

Diana on December 2, 2020 at 4:42 pm #47737

Thank you for breaking through the stigma of mental health and bringing forth such an important topic we don’t talk about enough. That is so awesome.

I don’t have much for advice, but more of an observation. You mentioned your recent 5.10 trad and 511c sport sends (congrats!) brought on temporary motivation. That tells me that you have strong external motivation. You can tap into that by using social apps like Strava for your workouts, where the Kudos from others can externally motivate one to get out the door. Alternatively, you can look into what your internal motivations are (ie: why do I love this sport?) I ponder this question regularly to add fuel to the fire of my motivation and purpose.

[Melissa Macdonald]

Melissa Macdonald on June 22, 2022 at 2:29 pm #68445

I totally get this. I read an article last year or so and it kindof does go along with the “just do it” mentality, but it really helped me put Motivation in perspective (yes, capital M!) We each have a goal, a climb, a race, whatever the case may be. And we have training to do to work towards that. The thing is, I don’t have to be jazzed and happy every time I go out on a training hike. Sometimes I think we turn being “Motivated” into being fist-pumping, “Let’s ROCK THIS, whooo hooo!!” mentality. It’s not that at all. I do The Things (in this case, training) because I’m committed to my goal, whether I’m motivated to do it or not, or I should say, even if I’m NOT motivated.

Last year I had one last training hike – carrying 40# uphill, 4000′ elevation gain in 2 miles. Crazy steep. I sat in the parking lot and cried. I did not want to do it. I put my pack on finally and just said, “I am not motivated to do this. I don’t want to do this. But am committed to my goal, therefore I must go”. Cried the whole way up. (Did I mention the torrential Washington rainstorm yet?) I just kept repeating that mantra “Because I’m committed”. Also, I think of motivated as an emotion/mentality, and committed as an action.

So now instead of looking at it as being Motivated, I change that out to being Committed. Hope that helps a bit.

[LindsayTroy]

LindsayTroy on June 22, 2022 at 11:31 pm #68459

I think I can sort of relate. I really struggle with the pre-built plans. Mostly, the workouts tend to be <2hrs long, but you have to do something 6 days a week. I have found that I struggle working out 6 days per week (thats when I get injured!) and it’s hard for me to leave the house for <1hr. I personally have found much greater success with my own plan which is basically just a google sheet that has an hours goal (#1 priority) and then I break it down further into hours at each HR zone. Some weeks, I do 1-2 really long hikes and that plus climbing in the gym is all my training for the week and some weeks it looks a lot more like the training plan. (I bought a training plan to map it after)

Perhaps you can identify what part of training you’re struggling with that is resulting in a lack of consistency and try to find a work around for that?

[Mariner_9]

Mariner_9 on June 23, 2022 at 8:21 am #68465

@deckersdan – a sports psychologist I worked with suggested that the strongest motivation comes from our sense of purpose and our values. Perhaps you can identify a value that’s consistent with sticking to your training plan?

Nice work on the trad and sport routes!

[sethmnielsen]

sethmnielsen on July 11, 2023 at 1:29 pm #79609

I have been going to a psychiatrist regularly for many years, and this helps me to be consistent in everything I do.
A psychiatrist can help you develop coping strategies, explore underlying issues, and provide tools to maintain motivation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous on July 19, 2023 at 6:12 am #79794

I’ve found that setting micro-goals can help – small, daily steps towards the bigger goal. When I start feeling that wave of anxiety or the cloud of depression, I remind myself that it’s okay to take it slow, even if it’s just a short workout. What’s important is consistency, not intensity.

[Flybgrace]

Flybgrace on November 30, 2023 at 6:15 am #82801

One thing you could try is breaking down your training into smaller, doable steps. Celebrate each small victory along the way, like your first 5.10 trad route and 5.11c sport route. Those wins can be really motivating! Taking care of yourself is essential, both physically and mentally. Consider doing activities that help reduce stress, like meditation or yoga. And remember, it’s okay to ask for support when you need it. There are resources out there that can help, like therapy or counseling.

[Flybgrace]

Flybgrace on December 1, 2023 at 5:05 am #82959

By the way, I’m new here on the forum, so I hope my advice is helpful. I came across this website https://fherehab.com/learning/neurosis-mental-health that has some interesting info on mental health and motivation.

[Anonymous]

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[sethmnielsen]

sethmnielsen on May 30, 2024 at 3:17 am #87364

It is the part of the game, the road to succes. You have to be strong and deal with it, that’s it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous on June 1, 2024 at 10:58 am #87676

I get where you’re coming from. Finding consistency can be challenging, especially when mental health throws a wrench in your plans. One thing that helps me is taking small breaks to recharge. For example, I take short CBD breaks to relax my body and mind. It gives me a reset and helps me return to my goals with a clearer head. I use the Nexus Smoke vapes. Smoking isn’t ideal, but vaping felt like a less harmful option for me. Little breaks like these can make a difference. Keep pushing forward, and don’t be too hard on yourself. Progress, no matter how small, is still progress.